Siggy Flicker Says Her Experiences Have Taught Her To Take Risks In Life

Siggy Flicker is a relationship expert, so it makes sense that she wants to listen to some of the problems within the group. Siggy knows that there have been issues between Teresa Giudice and Jacqueline Laurita, especially since Jacqueline brought up some issues from the past. Laurita really wanted Teresa to take responsibility for her fraudulent behavior that she was charged with a few years ago. She served her time behind bars and she just wants to move on. And Siggy may want to understand why these two ladies can’t move on without talking about the past first.

According to a new Bravo report, Siggy Flicker is now revealing that she did feel some tension between her co-stars before they went away on their spa weekend. Flicker didn’t want the ladies to fight, but she did want to see how she could help, since she is a relationship expert and has written books about how to have great friendships and relationships.

“The beginning of our spa getaway started out with a little tension between Teresa and Jacqueline, but thankfully it ended up being an incredible bonding experience for all of us. During this quick trip, I really got to know all of the girls better, and for the first time I got to see Teresa’s endearing side. It was lovely to see Teresa and Jacqueline enjoy each other’s company and not bring up the past,” Siggy Flicker reveals in her blog for The Real Housewives of New Jersey, according to Bravo.

Siggy realizes that Jacqueline and Teresa can’t move on from the past if they keep looking at what has happened. In all fairness, Giudice would have talked about the past if she felt comfortable talking about it. She would have opened up to her co-stars about her legal issues if she wanted them involved. But she didn’t. Laurita couldn’t understand why she would then talk to the tabloids about her legal issues, but she may have done that solely for the money to provide for her family.

“How can you move forward if you keep bringing up what’s already happened? It’s not easy to break through walls that others put up, especially when both sides are going through unimaginably tough times,” Siggy Flicker explains in her blog, sharing her own expertise about her own relationships.

Flicker opens up about her divorce in her blog, sharing her decision to divorce one man and marry another. Since she is a relationship expert, it makes sense that she would leave a marriage that wasn’t working for her, so she could focus on something else. And Siggy Flicker knows that all of the ladies have gone through something horrendous and she thinks they are all survivors in their own way.

“One thing the five of us have in common is that we’ve all made it through difficult times; we are all SURVIVORS. We have all pulled through and will continue to pull through whatever life throws at us,” Siggy Flicker reveals in her Bravo blog, adding, “You see, by giving up my lifestyle and everything I was comfortable with, I found true happiness — and I’ve helped so many others find their happiness as well. I’m proof that if you’re willing to take risks in life, beautiful things can happen! My experiences are my expertise!”

According to Reality Tea, Flicker reveals that the only way to move forward is to let go of the past. And she wants Laurita and Teresa to understand that they can’t keep bringing up the past if they want to move forward.

What do you think of Siggy Flicker’s advice for her co-stars?

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