Erika Kirk, the widow of conservative activist Charlie Kirk, raised eyebrows when she shared a hug at a recent Turning Point USA event in Mississippi. Many were curious to know if high-profile divorce lawyers should be excited, and how the Vice President’s wife, Usha Vance, feels about it all. Now, a body language expert has revealed what the hug could actually mean.
According to RadarOnline.com, the expert stated that Vance and Kirk’s hug reflects a “lack of boundaries.” “I think they’re super close,” concluded Traci Brown, a body language expert and behavior analyst.
There’s a lot of controversy over this hug between Erika Kirk and JD Vance.
Imagine being outraged over a 2.5 second hug between friends?
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“Or she wants to be super close. And he’s not saying no, right?” she added. Interestingly, when the controversial hug took place, Vance’s wife, Usha, was also in the audience, and people were curious to know what she felt at the moment. Traci says, “If I were Usha… I would have liked to be a fly on the wall in the car ride home.”
The body language expert further delved into how the hug shows a “lack of boundaries” between the two, particularly on Erika Kirk‘s side. “Is it over her whole life? Don’t know. But definitely right now, the stress has heightened that,” she added.
In addition, Brown said that Kirk tilted “her head,” while hugging JD Vance, which showed “deep recognition and affection” from her side. Analyzing their interaction, the body language expert added that Kirk’s “hand on the back of his head” showed “deep closeness” between the two. Traci Brown concluded that, for whatever it’s worth, the hug definitely revealed a “lack of formality” between Erika and JD Vance.
Is this The Turning Point for Erika Kirk? Looks like the grieving widow has moved on! That’s more than a friendly hug…that’s an intimate embrace! Will Usha Vance send JD to the confessional? pic.twitter.com/QoMdFpsU6B
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Previously, a clip of their hug went viral online, with critics flocking to comment on how they felt about the entire interaction. “I have (male) friends I’ve known for decades, and I have never hugged them like that,” one user took a dig. Another added that the hug itself appeared “bizarre” and they couldn’t remember when they “hugged someone like this who was not my own Mr.”
“Also thought the same thing about the pleather pants – very inappropriate. I wear pleather pants, but you have to know when/where to wear them,” a third wrote. Another person, who shared the same sentiment, claimed that the interaction between JD Vance and Erika Kirk showed that the latter was “really comfortable and at ease” with the former.
However, some people also defended the pair, pointing out the emotional distress Erik might have been over Charlie Kirk’s assassination. “It’s almost as if she went through some unimaginable trauma that none of us could relate to,” wrote one defender.
