Heather Dubrow’s Marriage Struggling: Why Her Husband Isn’t Trying To Make It Work

Heather Dubrow has revealed several times that her husband isn’t around too much, especially when it comes to the children. Several years ago, Terry Dubrow promised that he would work less and spend more time with his family. But sadly, work has taken over and as Heather has said several times, he’s busier than ever. Terry doesn’t feel bad about being busy, as he’s loving everything that he’s doing outside of the show. But his children are noticing his absence and this is heartbreaking for Heather Dubrow, who just wants him to enjoy these moments with his children before it’s too late.

According to a new Bravo report, Heather Dubrow is now revealing that she’s heartbroken that their children are now starting to notice and comment on his absence. Heather and her husband had been in a meeting with their publishers when she was ready to celebrate their news. But Terry revealed that Max had made a comment about some empty chair photos. While Terry understood what his child was saying to him, Dubrow was heartbroken.

“We had just come from a meeting with our publishers and were on such a high! Ready to celebrate, so it surprised me when Terry brought up Max and the empty chair photos. This was news to me and so sad. Like I said, I can only do so much — at some point Terry needs to take action and be home more,” Heather Dubrow reveals in her Bravo blog for The Real Housewives of Orange County.

Terry Dubrow has revealed that he enjoys his work so much, but he understands that he can’t continue putting work before his family. And Heather Dubrow reveals that while his work is important, it isn’t like he’s working these crazy hours to fund everything for the mansion they have been building. Heather hopes that he will start to change, since he is hurting his children by being absent.

“For all of you who think Terry is working so much to pay for the house we are building let me fill you in…yes, of course that’s partially true, but the real reason he is working so much is because he is filming two TV shows AND there’s a lot of travel involved. He says yes to everyone, except the family. This has now become obvious to him and he needs to make some choices moving forward. I hope he does,” Heather Dubrow reveals in her blog for The Real Housewives of Orange County.

Dubrow hasn’t mentioned whether all of this work could influence her marriage to him. It’s clear that he wants to keep working, but Heather may not be along for the ride if he continues to ignore his family. But she hasn’t hinted that his busy work schedule is threatening to their relationship. The drama didn’t stop at home. Dubrow also had to deal with a confrontation, where she got to share what she really thought about Kelly Dodd.

“Seeing Kelly again in Palm Springs imitate me and talk negatively about me is exactly why I didn’t want to pursue the friendship. Like I said at sushi dinner — I’m sure she’s nice deep down, but her behavior is not acceptable to me,” Heather Dubrow revealed in her blog, according to Bravo.

According to Daily Mail, Heather decided to confront Dodd about her behavior and things didn’t exactly go down in a peaceful manner. It makes sense that Dubrow would be skeptical of hanging out with Kelly and why she may be taking things slowly.

What do you think of Heather Dubrow’s comments about her marriage? Are you surprised that Terry isn’t slowing down with work?

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