Ramona Singer Gives Her Side Of The Thomas, Sonja, And Luann Love Triangle

Ramona Singer hadn’t really shared her dating life on The Real Housewives of New York so fans were surprised to learn that she had indeed dating Thomas D’Agostino before he met Luann de Lesseps. Luann was psyched because she had met Thomas and they had spent hours together leading up to Christmas. She really wanted to be with him, and they were already talking about marriage after just dating for a few weeks. Surprisingly, Luann learned that Thomas had been around the block and he had actually dated both Ramona Singer and Morgan.

According to a new Bravo report, Ramona Singer is now reflecting on how Luann handled the situation after learning about Sonja and Ramona’s relationship with Thomas. On last week’s episode, Singer decided to tell Luann that Thomas had actually gone behind her back to give his ex-wife some jewelry for Christmas. And while some fans are shocked at the way Ramona decided to bring it up, Singer just wants to protect her co-star.

“On that note I will jump in by saying I can’t believe how Luann spoke about Sonja and Tom’s past relationship. Sonja and Tom had a relationship as lovers. The way Luann spoke about it and made reference with her finger and hand about a supposedly one-time encounter between Sonja and Tom was repulsive and totally not classy. Sonja is supposedly her friend, and how could Luann go so low and be so demeaning is beyond my comprehension. To say I was appalled is an understatement,” Ramona Singer explains in her blog for The Real Housewives of New York.

de Lesseps has been accused of breaking girl-code, as she started dating Thomas without consulting Ramona Singer and Morgan. But what about Ramona? Did she consult Morgan before going on some dates with D’Agostino? Did she herself break girl code? As it turns out, she hadn’t told Singer about her relationship with Thomas, and Sonja decided to bring it up after learning about the relationship in the press.

“I could not believe Tom did not tell me that he was lovers with Sonja. I never would’ve gone out with him had I known that information. Sonja never told me until after the fact,” Ramona Singer points out, revealing that Thomas should have known about the connection between the ladies, as they have all been on The Real Housewives of New York for years.

Singer was shocked to learn that her friend had dated Tom before she came around. Morgan has dated several guys over the years, but Ramona Singer had not known about D’Agostino. Singer wants to make her case, so people don’t accuse her of breaking girl code. Ramona really didn’t realize that Sonja had dated him and she was shocked to learn that Luann was planning a wedding to the same guy. It was shocking, and in her blog, Ramona reveals that she took her out for dinner, where she opened up about her relationship with him.

“Sonja then revealed to me she had been lovers with Tom. I asked Sonja why she never shared this information with me. Sonja said, ‘Well I read in the press that you were dating him, and I thought maybe you liked him and he liked you, and I didn’t want to get involved and ruin anything for you and him.’ I told Sonja that she should have told me as soon as she knew we were dating,” Ramona Singer revealed in her blog for The Real Housewives of New York, adding that she would never have gone on the dates with D’Agostino if she knew that Morgan had dated him before her.

What do you think of Ramona Singer’s explanation? Do you think she should have dated a man if Morgan had dated him first?

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