Husband Divorces, Sues Wife For Having ‘Ugly’ Baby

How do you think this would float on this side of the world?

Talk about false advertising.

This is ridiculous!!! Another man trying to get out of taking care of his child. umm hello, a dna test would hv proved that was his baby..

Crazy the whole mentality over there….

she is ugly..haha,,the wife that is

Next he will sue her for having a girl.

Feng is pissed off because his kid is ugly. He just needs to take the kid to his wifes plastic surgeon. She must have a lot of return customer discounts there by now. Lol

Lol!!!

Smdh

Here's a novel idea. Maybe she should have been upfront with him before she married him?

lol He won! China is crazier than the US.

Shame on you, the baby may have didn't come out the way you want her to be. At least she's healthy.

The wife doesn't look that much different..that's clearly an awful before shot of her. If he was any type of husband he's seen her without makeup before. What the hell is this world coming too.

Didn't he mislead her when he lied & said he loved her?
Obviously, if it was all about the way she looked, he never really loved her at all…

Maybe he shouldn't have married her because of the way she looked??

This poor girl….she's going to have the worst self image thanks to her JackAss of a father. I hope his parental rights were taken :/

So that excuses deceit? He didn't change her looks. She spent that crazy amount. All I'm saying is that should be something you tell someone with all that in stake.

Have you even tried looking at it from a stand point other than a wrong woman? Not saying he's a great guy but come on. You marry someone without telling them significant information and then don't understand when he flips out? And the way he finds out is inexcusable. Why isn't she not being criticized also? People stop looking at the gender and look at it as the situation. So if a woman married a guy and later he reveals he was a she would the wife be excuse of not loving him if she left? Yeah she loves him/her but the deceit would be the killer.

So, any woman wearing a push-up bra, slimming underwear, make-up….all being deceitful??? Have ya walked around in today's society?? Nothing is that black & white these days….I feel sorry for you if you haven't realized this up til now. Did he ever ask to see a picture of his loving wife younger? Seems to me, this is what she looks like now–that's not deceitful. It IS the way she looks. He didn't flip out, either….he saw a baby & deemed it "ugly"….did he expect the baby to have a full face of makeup?? Babies change constantly as they grow–even day to day. Their marital issues came before the baby…the baby being ugly was the catalyst. He was trying to get out of paying for the kid coz he didn't think it looked like him. That's low & inexcusable. And a sex change is hardly comparable to cosmetic surgery. You're getting into reproductive issues at that point–if it were to even go that far without childhood pictures coming up at some point in a loving, caring, relationship. BUT, that being said, a woman who were to find out later that the man she married might not be in a rush to leave a GOOD, SOLID relationship, if kids were not an issue. It may take time & lots of therapy, but it could work because she fell in love with that person as is….to find out after the fact, may not change it for some.

So, any woman wearing a push-up bra, slimming underwear, make-up….all being deceitful??? Have ya walked around in today's society?? Nothing is that black & white these days….I feel sorry for you if you haven't realized this up til now. Did he ever ask to see a picture of his loving wife younger? Seems to me, this is what she looks like now–that's not deceitful. It IS the way she looks. He didn't flip out, either….he saw a baby & deemed it "ugly"….did he expect the baby to have a full face of makeup?? Babies change constantly as they grow–even day to day. Their marital issues came before the baby…the baby being ugly was the catalyst. He was trying to get out of paying for the kid coz he didn't think it looked like him. That's low & inexcusable. And a sex change is hardly comparable to cosmetic surgery. You're getting into reproductive issues at that point–if it were to even go that far without childhood pictures coming up at some point in a loving, caring, relationship. BUT, that being said, a woman who were to find out later that the man she married might not be in a rush to leave a GOOD, SOLID relationship, if kids were not an issue. It may take time & lots of therapy, but it could work because she fell in love with that person as is….to find out after the fact, may not change it for some.

Oh ok you were there to know all that. Lol ok I'm done but again I admitted he was an error why can't you admit hers? There is a BIG difference in a bra and 100k in surgery. IJS

Actually, I read that all in the article… I don't think she was IN error. She looked as she looked when they met. There was no deceit. She changed her appearance, & she attracted him as she was. An "ugly" baby is a horrible thing to label a kid, first of all, & 2nd, genealogy & heredity can do strange things & the "ugly" could have come from his side–whether or not the baby looks like him. She wasn't completely unfortunate looking in her before shot–plain, maybe, but ugly is harsh. I do know, as a parent, that you bond with that baby for 9 months–you don't judge it–& fathers have feelings for their babies. This guy did not. He wanted out before this baby was born…that's why he judged his baby as ugly & was looking for a paternity test. Something tells me there was never really anything more than lust between them, & he really was just grasping at straws to get out of the mess they made.
I can't overlook him being such an uncaring, unfeeling, jack ass who seems to be able to sink so low & be so superficial when it comes to his child–who will probably be in therapy for years if she ever hears how he feels about her!
And for a judge to agree?? It's just wrong….& his behavior cannot possibly be justified
Nice discussing with ya, thou~

there was a dna test….proved he was the daddy….& that he's a jack ass

I agree with Lora.. yea maybe she didn't tell him everything about her past but if he seriously loved her like he's stating, why take this to court and make such a huge deal about it. just because his daughter didn't come out the way he wanted her too doesn't mean you go and disown her and treat the woman he "so called" loved like she's nothing more than someone he had a one night stand with. the only word that defines this man is "shallow".. and can someone please tell me how that ass hole won his case!

Wow… Just wow. This dude is a scumbag.

He ain't that pretty himself

lora she deceived him from the start based on looks why isnt she being criticized ! we all know how women look when they go out compared to when they are home ! the facts are she was not up front from the get go ! they are both wrong with this now shes out $220,000 i wonder if she thinks its all worth it. HONESTY FROM THE BEGINNING IS A BEAUTIFUL THING !!!!

He honestly did not love her, but still got married & had a child with her under those pretenses. She did not deceive him–he saw her & was attracted to her. He got what he saw. You don't fall in love with someone to get a beautiful baby. HE LIED when he said he loved her. Fact is, he never did love her–he loved the woman he saw, & when things fell apart, he found a way to get out of the marriage & a way to get out of paying for the baby. The "ugliness" could very well have come from his side of the family–genetics is funny that way. You never REALLY know what you're going to get. This is a ridiculous, sexist, & stupid case.

Give it up Nick. I tried but its futile. Hate to assume but I think there's been some hurt here. There is blame to go around. Anybody who can take a definite side is probably influenced by past experiences and hurt. There is no clear right or wrong here. Crazy thing is this happened in China. I think their culture is a bit different from ours. Why are we judging from Western views thinking we can make since of it?

Ha! I've been married to my high school sweetheart for 17 years….nice try, thou. No hurt here. Just sickened by a shallow man getting out of his responsibilities & blaming someone else for his outrageously bad behavior. Their culture may be different, but humanity is worldwide. This guy & the judge have none~

But you're not sickend by the shallowness of a woman who spent that much to look better?

Who cares that she used to be ugly and didn't tell him, fresh starts shoud always be allowed. And I would think exactly the same way if a guy altered his appearance. The real issue is he's claiming that her bad genes led to an ugly baby, so he should have never won the case. Beautiful people have ugly babies all the time, and some of the best looking people have ugly parents. What a person looks like, or their intelligence, or any other attribute can be passed on, or can be skipped. There are no guarantees with genetics.

All of it is "the real" issue. Follow the process and what came first which was her altering herself. Spending that much to look better is freaking ridiculous. She is mentally sick. I'm not sure she should even be a mother. If appearance means that much to her, what would she do with a "ugly" baby?

The next "real" issue is the deceit. Say what you want but that can be big and unforgivable to most people. Yes there are no guarantees with genetics but who he have won the case if she was a born a beautiful woman and happened to have an "ugly" baby? This could have been a none issue if she would have been honest and upfront. He at least would have the right information to choose. Rather you see it as right or wrong is irrelevant. We all look at looks to some degree. So lets not act like we don't. Plus again this is China, not America. That's like saying one religion makes more sense that another. Even if you think that, you can't knock someone else's belief.

Let's see…the country is headed for a financial catastrophe (fiat money), it's bankrupt, we're spending trillions on illegal wars that only create more hatred of us abroad (except for Israel, of course), we're given the (non) choice of one Goldman Sachs puppet over another Goldman Sachs puppet, the last two war criminals who held the highest office in the land have been systematically destroying the Constitution and Bill of Rights and we're fascinated about whether a man is justified in divorcing his wife for lying to him about the genes she'll be passing on to their children. Amazing!

sounds like a very petty, shallow person.

All the issues are real issues, and some matter more to each individual person. If I married someone not knowing they used to be "ugly" and later found out, I would first be more concerned with what hurt or pain lead that person to go through all that effort, pain and money to have those alterations done. As you referred to, it is China, not America, or in my case Canada. Chinese culture is filled with many more secrets as there are places that won't hire you if you look a certain way, or come from a certain area. That kind of culture breeds deception that are more cases of self preservation than trying to "dupe" the world. Deception done with the intent on hurting a person, or with a display of bad character would be what mattered to me. And I don't consider trying to hide from the shame of being "ugly" as bad character, I've seen first hand friends be ridiculed for their appearance and 20 years later not have gotten over it. For me the only loser in this situation is the baby who the father was "horrified" to look at. I won't try to change your mind, but I also will maintain my opinion.

I had no idea they could determine all that with a DNA test… man I'm screwed…

I had no idea they could determine all that with a DNA test… man I'm screwed…

I find it stranger they covered all those babies with hello kitty blankets. man they start em out on that weird shit early over there.

The true beauty of a person goes deeper than looks.

Doesn't look that much different?!?! You must be reading this in brail…woman on the left-fugly…woman on the right–not too shabby(not my type but waaaay better looking than before)

That plastic surgeon is the bomb. Her eyes even loom different. Small beady eyes in the 1st pic fuller eyes in the 2nd pic. I think that the husband is smart for thinking to sue may not be morally right but he's smart especially since he won lol.

Meant look

Wow…that's wild….

what a horses ass!

Which goes to show that women are less then nothing in China, I thought the mentality of the Chinese Males was the smaller the feet the more beautiful the woman, I guess they have moved up to the face now. The father should still be made to pay child support do they have that over there in that crazy country. There goes the saying Me love you Long time…Not anymore.

DAMN!!!!!!!!

OMG

That's crazy

He apparently married her for looks, not for love.

could someone please just go lay this man out for being that insensitive and ignorant! She should divorce his ass and get everything he has for his behavior of ignorance.

they are better off without him , he is a jackass….

Oh good lord

aaaaand yet, there is still a BIG difference between cosmetic surgery and a sex change…'ding ding ding!'

He is a total jerk.

Hey remember folks to that this happened in China and they have kind of a mess up thing going there when it comes down to children…

In china they only get one chance for a baby, looks are a big part of it. I can see why he would be so angry. But if plastic surgery made the mom look that beautiful why not the daughter?

this is just a sad situation. first, this couple has a health baby girl, who many couples desire to have. this "man" doesn't want to be with his wife anymore b/c she is "ugly" is the saddest thing I have ever heard. this world is sick. there are couples who deal with children who had diseases who are fighting for their lives. this JERK wants a divorce b/c his child is "ugly". to this child: you are not "ugly" you are BEAUTIFUL. and don't let anyone, including your biological "father" tell you any different. hold your head up high and be someone great! God made you in his image and God doesn't make junk! of course, man can act like junk sometimes, like your "father". sorry baby. to the wife: I understand as a woman you wanting to look beautiful. you already were. you should never have to go thru thousands of dollars worth of surgery to feel beautiful. however, I am not here to condemn you. I am sorry you have had to go thru this. love your beautiful baby.

Edward Smith, I married a man who did NOT reveal in advance that he is bipolar. I went through HELL ON EARTH. His response to my asking why he didn't tell me. . .he didn't think that it mattered.

Mom and baby are better off without this guy.

not too many women out there today that doesn't have some form of plastic..totally rediculous.

not too many women out there today that doesn't have some form of plastic..totally rediculous.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Beauty is only skin deep. Real beauty lies within.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Beauty is only skin deep. Real beauty lies within.

Tough situation but I feel sorry for this baby. Daddy (basically) is divorcing her too based on her looks and that's wrong. I have 3girls and a boy, I wouldn't throw ANY of them away! They are blessings NOT curses.

Edward Smith are you kidding me, if your wife had an ugly baby, you would divorce her? What if the baby was ugly because she looked liked the husband, he is an evil bastard for what he did and he should go to hell for what he did and I hope his daughter comes out with a loving heart and that she tells him to go to hell also!!!!! He is nothing but a fake bastard and a loser and a poor excuse for a man!!!

Edward Smith are you kidding me, if your wife had an ugly baby, you would divorce her? What if the baby was ugly because she looked liked the husband, he is an evil bastard for what he did and he should go to hell for what he did and I hope his daughter comes out with a loving heart and that she tells him to go to hell also!!!!! He is nothing but a fake bastard and a loser and a poor excuse for a man!!!

What is up with you men and looks!!!!!!!!!!! OMG it is men like you that ruin everything, not all women are drop dead gorgeous and the ones that are usually treat men like shit!!! The ones that are plain janes are the ones that treat there men like kings but they don't appreciate it because there too busy looking at all the whores out there!!!!!!!!!!!

Only the men have the most messed up comments! Plastic surgery is stupid anyway, I feel you were born with your looks so why alter them, the lord made you that way, so keep what you look like so he can recognize you when you die! But for that asshole to sue her just because the baby is ugly is just fucked up, that baby is going to grow up to be the most beautiful woman ever and he is going to regret what he did and also he is going to go to hell with the DEVIL! Along with all you SHALLOW MEN WITH ALL OF YOUR STUPID COMMENTS AGAINST UGLY WOMEN! All women aren't drop dead gorgeous!

Well, I figure it this way…. It's his loss!
This also a catch 22 situation! She didn't lie per say, she just didn't tell him everything about herself! All women keep some secrets! It's not a crime!
But, he did lie to her, saying that he Loved her!
Besides, it's not what's on the outside that counts, but, what's in the heart! If she was a Good woman, it's his loss! He's the Jerk!
A person who is Beautiful on the outside could be a self centered, egotistical person, while the so called Ugly person will have a heart of Gold! Beauty is only Skin Deep!
I feel bad for the baby! Now she will grow up without her father! Maybe her mom will get lucky and finally get a real man that will love her for who she IS, not for her looks!
This jerk is just a sperm donor! Nothing more!
Move on mama! You deserve better! He isn't worth it!

Edward when 2 sets of DNA come together you never know what the baby will look like. Stupid article, stupid judge!

not I. God made me the way I am. I'm keeping it that way.

This guy will have a great conversation with his child when they Google and see daddy sued for them being ugly….father of the year over here!

This guy will have a great conversation with his child when they Google and see daddy sued for them being ugly….father of the year over here! Men like him give men a bad name. Women are allowed to get plastic surgery or do what ever else they want to look pretty and do not need permission from anyone. Serves the douche right for marrying for beauty.

She deserved that… now she should start saving for the baby's surgeries

She deserved that… now she should start saving for the baby's surgeries

I don't think he should divorce her because of what the baby looks like, but for the fact that she decieved him. I'm sorry, Lora, but no matter what…she did not tell the truth.

He after photo is totally fake. Photoshoped the before photo. Fake ass story

dudes… I don't even KNOW where to begin w this one…lol! I mean , I want to be serious in my response, but it's such an absurd situation.. suing your wife bc your baby is ugly.. and winning.. it boggles the brain.. sounds like a Jerry Springer show or a Twilight Zone, rt.. just think about it… I guess this should have been a topic of discussion before they decided to have kids.. but how many peeps want to tell their loved one well, I used to look like a norwegian elkhound but I paid for a totally new face.. And inChina it's bad enough to be a girl in the first place, that they let u live beyond zygote is huge.. I don't mean that mean.. its a fact.. all in all I do hope he finds a sinkhole to fall in..

Probably looks just like him!!!!!

How do you tell someone "I was really ugly once and there is a chance our kids can be ugly too?" Seriously? its a shame this poor girl was FORCED into getting the surgeries to make her marketable and then when her kid looks the same as she did she and the child are abandoned and the crazy courts supported the argument..smh..the world is going to hell in a handbasket and this fool is worried about an "ugly kid"? No he ugly on that kid represents the ugliness inside the father, those are HIS genes showing.

I suppose they don't have child support over there then? Any way you look at it, he's very superficial if he's that concerned about his child's looks! A baby can't help how they look! It's his baby! He's supposed to love it no matter how it looks!

At Smith that you are trying defend him confuses me, sure she should have told him by they way I wasn't always an attractive person but maybe he shouldn't be a dick and should have possibly I don't know LOVED HIS CHILD!!!!! That seems to be what everyone is missing here that he walked away from his child.

Wow , that nuts , she did have a piont though,,LMAO

It's assholes like this that give women a complex, causing them to get surgeries in the first place. And what about that innocent baby? If her own father can't love her then what does that say about the rest of the men she will have in her life?

Edward Smith If a guy felt he needed that much surgery to feel better about himself, and din't tell me till after we had a kid, I'd be fine with it. So what? I didn't fall for his ass, I fell for his laugh and how fun he is to be with. Its not deciet. She was obviosly afraid to tell him about how she looked before because her self-esteem isn't that great. If he cared for her, and loved her, it shouldn't be that big of a deal. Its not like she slept with someone else or cheated on him. She just ommited the fact she had reconstructive plastic surgery. Even Dolly Parton's husband doesn't know everything she's had lifted, tucked, and pulled. Frankly, he doesn't really give a crap. This guy is a low down, dirty, pig. Number one, you dn't all out accuse your wife of adultery because the baby doesn't look like you, number two, you don't devorce your wife because she omitted the fact that she had some work done, and 3, you don't flipping sue her and take food from your kid's mouth. If anything, she should counter sue his ass for emotional trauma, and damage this kid is going to have from knowing its father thought it was so ugly he left them.

Dude, this country as been going down the shitter since vietnam… GWB and Obama just sped it all up. We're not worried over this lady, we're just in amazment of how some other governments can still allow this crap. Our country may be going down the shitter, but at least this crap won't happen in the US. In this country, if a man tries that sort of thing, he loses most of his money and his house and she gets everything.

@Edward, considering it IS China, I'm sure the baby will be sold into sex trafficking, to compensate for the expenses her father has costs. But let's not form an opinion about it, because it's a different culture. And they have a different way of doing things there.

Nope, if a man gets ass implants, he isn't going to tell his girl unless she sees the scars. It isn't deciet to us. I've never had plastic surgery, but if I did, so what. The new look is now "how I look". It isn't who I am. I've seen some gorgeous girls that just look incredible.. until they open their mouths. If she trimmed the hedges and pruned the leaves a bit, so what? Shes got to hand youthe petals and branches to show you what she did. No way. Get over it. She didn't decieve him. He dicieved her into thinking he'd be there no matter what. She omitted her surgery, she didn't go sleep with anyone or cheat on him in ay way or spend "his" money to do it.

they live in China where recently, people would abort female children or give them away because they only wanted sons. Its still a very sexist country over there.

first, let's see this ugly baby…& this woman is lucky that he's out of her life & everything's in the open. now she can find someone to love her & her daughter for who they are. I guess I don't blame him so much for the divorce (he's a douche, it's to be expected) but taking her to court is just too much. I doubt he'll ever find a decent woman now.

Only in China could this happen! This is as disgusting as their fur farms where they torture animals for their fur by skinning them sometimes while they are still alive…. Are they even considered civilized human beings?

You have absolutely no clue what it is like for a woman living in China, do you? Sometimes, deceit is a necessity. Read a book, dude. Then see how quickly you are to defend a sexist man in a third world country.

I hope all the women in China give birth to only boys and everyone of them turn out ugly and gay because there will be no women to interact with. I am sure he did not tell her all of his past secrets. "Double Standard."

What a putz! Is he GQ material? If I weighed 300 pounds and lost a lot of weight, then met a man am I required to tell him in case we have a fat child? Maybe he should have told her that he places more importance on looks and not love. Then he wouldn't have to put up with such an ugly wife and child!

Funny how all the men are saying the woman is to blame. *sigh* Shallow society.

I think he should eat shit and go to hel_!

I would have divorced her for both reasons. I know it ain't the baby's fault but…. Have u seen an ugly baby cry before??? That's unlawful

A baby not

You're so right, Victoria. Funny, I've not seen any comments on the fact that his genes were at work here also.

Yep!

I agree, he loved her for her looks not for who she is. If she can pay that much for plastic surgery then I think money was a factor as well. His love was conditional and not agape (unconditional). Who cares if she don't look like she did before hand, she look pretty now and who's to say the child will be ugly all her life. For the court to allow this it goes to show their sexist court system. He never really loved that women because true love covers a multitude of sins and if you do not know what that means then no wonder so many people are divorce. Read 1 Corinthians 13 if you need to know what he should have done in is heart concerning his wife that he took a vow before God to love "FOREVER".

I hope she dont abandon her baby. God Bless that baby!
That man his karma is on his way! It doesnt matter even if it was a deceit if he really loves her he would listen & understand her. Obviously he doesnt care about her & the baby. He is selfish greedy. O M G! How many woman & man have been doing surgery breast, nose, lips,hips,face, lipo, skin lightening/darkening! Especially to those has money can afford to do it & maintain it. This is a new generation now some peoples beauty are not real. Fake-fake but whi cares! If you really love & care the person thats all is matters. People deserve to live happy, enjoy their life etc…

I think the woman should have been honest about the situation. She should have told him up front about the surgery. That would have given him a chance to opt out and she could have found someone who accepted her as she was. This woman purposely left out important details and the husband was understandably upset. Surgically altering one's body is not the same as wearing a pushup bra, wig etc.Wearing items for self enhancement does not affect how one's offspring looks. The husband wanted a child who was beautiful like the mother. Her deceit was what the problem was. The before and after photos say it all.

I ca not agree with you Edward, love is blind. This is a sign of the typical man with a trophy girl, not love.

That's one good surgeon.

That's one good surgeon.

Glen! That is so wrong!

Edward Smith – how is plastic surgery significant information? It's not. If he asked her outright if she had plastic surgery and she lied, that's one thing, but this is ridiculous. Seems as though he only loved her for her looks. Just because we're siding with the woman, doesn't mean we're doing so because she's a woman. If this were to happen to a man, I'd think the woman was a jerk.

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GET REAL…. LOL Its very unfortunate now that there is a child involved now. Do not think he should have been awarded $120,000 because of it. Is he going to be a MAN and step up to the plate and be a father? Probably not from the sounds of it. Cause from what I can gather he can pay that $120,000 for child support now. Hahahahaha Once again there's another victim involved in this now.