If there’s one thing Melania Trump has perfected over the years, it’s the art of ignoring the noise, especially when that chatter involves Donald Trump‘s alleged extracurricular activities. Headlines have screamed about hush money, Playboy models, and adult film stars.
However, Melania has mostly watched it all go by with the serene indifference of a woman who simply has better things to do.
When the Wall Street Journal accused Trump of paying adult film star Stormy Daniels $130,000 to keep quiet ahead of the 2016 election, Melania didn’t bat an eyelash (publicly, at least). Speaking to ABC News in her famously cool, European-accented candor, she said, “It is not concern and focus of mine. I’m a mother and a first lady, and I have much more important things to think about and to do.”
TRUMP CHEATED: Trump had affairs with Stormy Daniels and underage girls arranged by Epstein.
Stormy slams Trump and highlights that a significant number of her clients were white Republican men. pic.twitter.com/UmEYk5XUqn
— Popular Liberal 🇺🇸 (@PopularLiberal) January 3, 2024
Translation: Stormy who?
And she maintained that same vibe when questions circled about Donald’s rumored fling with former Playboy model Karen McDougal around 2006, shortly after their son Barron was born. If Melania was seething, she did an Oscar-worthy job of hiding it.
Instead of making a scene or storming out of Mar-a-Lago with Barron in tow, Melania chose the silent-but-deadly route. She let the world speculate while she maintained a cool, composed public image. In fact, when ABC News pressed her on the health of her marriage, she doubled down on the unbothered act. “It’s what media speculate, and it’s gossip,” she insisted. “It’s not always correct stuff.”
But, as always with the Trumps, there’s what they say, and then there’s what the staff says.
Stephanie Grisham, Melania’s former aide, once suggested that behind closed doors, Melania wasn’t quite so zen about the whole hush-money scandal. Appearing on CNN in 2024, Grisham didn’t mince words. “It’s humiliating for her. I can guarantee you that she’s not happy right now and that [Donald is] quite worried about that.”
Apparently, Melania’s poker face was legendary, even fooling ABC News. Grisham added, a bit more bluntly, “When those came out that [Donald] had these affairs, she didn’t take it lightly at all.”
Yet despite any behind-the-scenes eye-rolling or silent treatments she may have deployed, Melania has consistently shown up, looking chic and untouched by scandal, while the rest of us whisper “girl, blink twice if you need help.”
And if you thought she’d spill the tea in her big sit-down to promote her self-titled book Melania in 2024, you’d be wrong. Chatting with Fox & Friends host Ainsley Earhardt, Melania was positively glowing about her marriage, choosing to paint Donald as the perfect family man.
“That he’s a family man,” she declared. “He loves his family, he loves his country, and all he wants is to build better and be prosperous.”
She was sked about her favorite qualities in her husband. “His being,” she said of Donald. “His humor, his personality, his kindness. He’s very special. … Yeah, so we have a beautiful relationship.”
This is so cute, Melania really loves Donald 🥰🥰🥰 pic.twitter.com/fRhzbMDYq8
— FLOTUS Report (@MELANIAJTRUMP) September 26, 2024
Beautiful might be subjective here, but it’s certainly… persistent.
Of course, there have been whispers that Melania has been strategically absent from the campaign trail, a fact that’s fueled its own brand of gossip. Biographer Michael Wolff poured gasoline on that fire when he told The Daily Beast podcast that the First Couple is basically leading separate lives and the FLOTUS has emotionally checked out of the marriage.
“They clearly do not in any way inhabit a marriage as we define marriage. And I think maybe we can more specifically say they live separate lives,” Wolff said. “They are separated. The president of the United States and the first lady are separated.”
But Melania? She is unbothered by your speculation, thank you very much. In her Fox interview, she clarified in that cool-as-ice way of hers that her absence isn’t about marital strife, just logistics. “I support him. I know how passionate he is to make America great again.”
Because when it comes to Melania Trump, the message seems to be clear: Keep calm, carry on, and never let them see you sweat. Or, you know, even acknowledge the question.
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