Kristi Noem‘s husband, Bryon Noem, responded after reports about his alleged secret surfaced. The Daily Mail reported that Bryon used a fake name, “Jason Jackson,” to communicate with multiple women on the platform. The former Homeland Security Secretary’s husband was reportedly seen cross-dressing, according to the photo evidence, while having affairs with multiple women online.
The 56-year-old did not dismiss the allegations but indicated he may respond later. He wrote to The New York Times on Tuesday, “I will at some point. Today is not the day. I appreciate your heart.”
Bryon Noem is allegedly into cross-dressing and “bimbofication” in a way to gratify himself. He was reportedly a part of the bimbofication community for 14 months. Currently, the Daily Mail is reviewing messages that Bryon exchanged with three different women on the platform. Bryon reportedly has a form of a fetish where he is dressed like a woman to role-play and pretend to have a bimbo persona.
DISTURBING: Former DHS Secretary Kristi Noem’s husband Bryon has been exposed as a secret crossdresser who dons gigantic fake breasts, pink hotpants, and figure-hugging outfits to engage in explicit online chats with fetish models, according to The Daily Mail.
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The photo evidence shows Bryon in an unusual outfit. In one of them, he is wearing a flesh-colored top and pink shorts. He has two balloons stuffed under the top to mimic a female body. He strategically placed the balloon knots to simulate body contours.
In another photo, he is wearing tight green leggings and a white top that is stuffed with two huge round objects. The father of three is an insurance executive. He has been married to Noem for 34 years now.
Kristi Noem’s spokesperson said, “Ms. Noem is devastated. The family was blindsided by this, and they asked for privacy and prayers at the time.” A potential tell-all interview from Noem could add to the controversy.
Secret life of Kristi Noem’s crossdressing husband Bryon revealed. pic.twitter.com/c0MFI0UJ0j
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Despite the affair rumors with close advisor Corey Lewandowski, Noem has sought to present her family as stable with Bryon and their three kids. According to her, the affair rumors were just “tabloid garbage.” She often posted their pictures on social media and thanked him for being there for the kids when she was busy with work.
In the messages sent to women on the platform, Bryon is seen complimenting their bodies and even went on to admit that he wants “huge, huge ridiculous b—.” He also spoke about his marriage, which he wanted to get better for his wife. He wrote to one woman, “’I love my wife, I want to get better.” The woman revealed that he would often disappear and later return to resume the same behavior.
