Like any of us, Donald Trump desires perfection in public appearances, and we don’t blame him. Even though perfection is an illusion as a public figure, we can understand the public scrutiny he is subjected to, especially when his wife, Melania, is a lot younger. While their relationship has always been in the spotlight for its 24-year age difference — Donald is 79 and Melania is 55 (as of this writing).
While Melania looks youthful and polished, Donald’s appearance, including his thinning hair and tacky tan, has only made the age difference more prominent. Melania Knauss (maiden name) was 28 and a rising model. Donald Trump was a 52-year-old billionaire real estate mogul when the duo met at a Fashion Week party in NYC in September 1998.
Her beautiful features left Trump smitten as he asked her out. Melania also later said that the attraction was mutual. “After returning home, I was giddy with joy. It’s truly a rare feeling to instantly connect with someone on such a deep level”.
Back then, Trump had just separated from his ex-wife, Maria Maples, and he was established in real estate and business. He was hot, happening, and rich. After a brief period of courtship and one breakup, the couple got engaged in 2004 and married at Trump’s Mar-a-Lago estate in 2005.
Therefore, one thing remains clear: Donald Trump wasn’t always the one who was insecure because of his hair or looks; it is only now that the 79-year-old feels like it because of his age and the responsibility he holds as a global figure. Moreover, their lifestyles reflect different priorities beyond physical appearance for Melania and him. (via Nicki Swift).
Trump was 54 when Melania was 30
A 24 year age gap
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While Melania, a former model, has remained committed to maintaining a healthy lifestyle and fit physique, teaching her 19-year-old son Barron to do the same, and indulging in home-cooked dishes, Trump’s busy lifestyle and love for fast food items like burgers and fries from McDonald’s have hampered his weight and well-being.
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Yet, in her memoir, Melania reflected on their early courtship fondly. “He was a bit older than me, but I, at the age of twenty-eight, felt an instant connection with him,” she also described Trump’s aura as charismatic, down-to-earth, and authentic. “His eyes filled with curiosity and interest… It was a moment of connection, a brief encounter that left a lasting impression,” she added. (via Tyla).
Even though the first lady’s sweet words for her husband highlight her love for him, the media has purposely been unkind to the couple. From scrutinizing Melania’s frequent absence from political events to digging out information from both their past lives to churn out steamy headlines, and not to forget the constant mocking of Donald Trump’s alleged makeup and hair fails, the pair has gone through some tough times.
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However, while Trump has responded to some of these claims with blunt remarks, Melania has handled them with grace and dignity. When old reports of the mother of one resurfaced during her first term, people called her a “gold digger” for marrying a much older man; she cleared the air like a bold lady.
“Maybe some people, they see me as just a wife of the president,” she said. “But I’m standing on my own two feet—independent. I have my thoughts. I have my own yes and no. I don’t always agree with what my husband is saying or doing, and that’s okay.” she said.
Similarly, in a resurfaced 1999 ABC News interview, Melania, then a 26-year-old model, was asked if people believed she was with Trump for his wealth. She said decisively, “You know, the people, they don’t know me… If somebody says, ‘You’re with the man because he’s rich and famous,’ they don’t know me.”
Therefore, the couple has once again proved that true love is beyond looks and status; it’s the connection of two souls. So what if Trump looks older or Melania likes to avoid the spotlight? The fact that the duo has managed to sustain their relationship despite a series of ups and downs proves how strong their partnership is and hopefully always will be.
