Ramona Singer has been friends with Bethenny Frankel for years, as they have filmed The Real Housewives of New York for many years together. While Bethenny did take a lengthy break from the show to focus on her career and her divorce, Ramona may have stayed in touch with her. Frankel was hurt when Ramona decided to bring up her daughter in a discussion about her sex video, and when Singer yelled “witch” after her when Bethenny decided to walk out, Frankel decided that she could no longer trust her friend.
According to Bravo, Ramona Singer is now revealing that she’s completely shocked that Bethenny doesn’t see her as a friend anymore. Singer claims that she has been a wonderful friend to Bethenny, but Frankel doesn’t see it that way. In this week’s blog post, Singer has decided to dedicate her entire blog to explain why she’s the victim in this entire thing.
“Wow, Wow! Really, really? Are you kidding me, Bethenny? How can you even say that I have not been a good friend? Totally shocked that you actually think that, let alone say that!” Ramona Singer writes in her blog for The Real Housewives of New York, revealing that she knows she has made an effort with the friendship.
Both ladies have said that things will get worse before they get better and it sounds like they both want to work on things. However, in her blog, Singer explains that she feels she has tried to make the best of their friendship and she has tried to be a good friend.
“At least I know that from the bottom of my heart, I have tried. You shut me out and shut me down. You said that there was an elephant in the room? Behind my back you talk about me being crazy and creepy and that I was coming into your space?” Singer points out in her blog, adding that Bethenny Frankel is very good at pushing people away, writing, “Well maybe you were the one who wasn’t a good friend. Maybe you were the one that closes the doors on people, and I react.”
It’s interesting that Singer is saying that she’s been a good friend because Frankel has teased that fans will soon learn why she hasn’t been a good friend to her.
Singer also explains that she’s been bullied by her Real Housewives of New York co-stars, who often call her names. In her blog, Ramona also compares her friendship with Bethenny to that of Sonja Morgan. Even though they have a rollercoaster of a friendship, they are always there for one another. She points out that she has a special connection with Sonja as a way of saying that she doesn’t have this kind of special connection with Bethenny.
“I own up to everything I am. You all tease me and call me The Apologizer. I take it all! You don’t see me shutting people out. And I am not apologizing!” Ramona Singer explains in her Bravo blog for The Real Housewives of New York, adding, “I know who I am. I love who I am, and people who really know me love me. As Sonja said, we roll with it. I look at life in a positive way! So does Sonja, which is why we have our forever special connection.”
What do you think of Ramona Singer’s blog, where she calls out Bethenny Frankel for her comment about not being a good friend? Do you think she has a point or do you think Singer is a bad friend?
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