Siggy Flicker joined The Real Housewives of New Jersey with the goal of having fun. She already knew some of the cast members and despite knowing of some family troubles, Siggy was probably hoping for some fun times and some happy memories with her friends. It didn’t take long for her to realize that this season of The Real Housewives of New Jersey is the season where old issues are brought up. And while Flicker is a self-proclaimed relationship expert, she was in no way ready for the drama that happened in Vermont.
According to a new Instagram post, Siggy Flicker is now revealing that she’s officially done trying to help the family members. In Vermont, some of the ladies did ask her for advice, but Flicker was clearly stressed out after she learned of the issues. And as she opened up about her frustrations, Siggy herself had an emotional breakdown. She wrote in her blog that Flicker is done helping this family, as the wounds are too deep and the sides are not willing to work on the issues.
— Amy McGehee (@amymeghee55) September 23, 2016
“I’m officially done trying to fix what doesn’t want to be fixed. I joined the cast of the RHONJ with the best intentions; I wanted to bring peace – not to be thrown into the middle of a war zone that doesn’t have an ending in sight. With each episode that passes, I’m slowly realizing that this entire scenario just may not be “fixable”. This “showdown in Stowe” has been years in the making. There’s been a lot of backstabbing, a lot of hurt, and a lot of ugly words thrown around. Mix that with a group of people who have a difficult time letting go of the past and moving forward, and you have a recipe for disaster,” Siggy Flicker revealed on a lengthy Instagram post, where she posted a picture of herself.
— All About The Tea (@AllAboutTheTea_) September 19, 2016
It’s uncertain what Siggy Flicker means when she writes that she’s officially done. While she could mean that she’s done with The Real Housewives of New Jersey, she could also mean that she’s just done trying to help Melissa Gorga, Teresa Giudice and Jacqueline Laurita. It’s no secret that she feels that they won’t work out their issues because they are so far apart. While Jacqueline feels that Teresa is causing trouble, Melissa and Teresa feel that Laurita is jealous of their relationship.
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Even though Siggy didn’t offer her expertise in this situation, she did come to a conclusion. Flicker doesn’t think that the parties are willing to work together, which means that they are not necessarily willing to work things out. Even though both parties can agree that there are issues to work through, the parties are not necessarily willing to make peace. Maybe some of the people enjoy the conflicts and they enjoy not having certain people in their lives.
— Rheon Llugwy Jones (@RheonJones) September 13, 2016
“Both parties here, no matter what they’ve said in the past, are not cooperating, which leads me to believe that they really don’t want to reconcile and move on,” Siggy Flicker continued in her Instagram post, adding, “During this trip, I felt like I got my ass kicked – all of the drama sucked the life right out of me. I didn’t deal well with drama when I was 16, and I sure as hell don’t have any desire to deal with it now!!!!”
What do you think of Siggy Flicker’s comments on her Instagram? Do you think she’s done filming The Real Housewives of New Jersey or do you think she’s just done helping out the family with their heavy issues, which is keeping this family split up?
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