Jules Wainstein has been going through the emotional turmoil over the past couple of months while wrapping up The Real Housewives of New York. Just a week ago, Jules announced that she was filing for divorce after she had learned that her husband had been cheating on her. And that may not come as the biggest surprise now, as Michael Wainstein had been rather absent throughout the entire time of filming The Real Housewives of New York. Perhaps she was already going through some issues when the ladies were filming, as she was acting out and crying quite a bit to Dorinda Medley.
According to a new Bravo report, Jules Wainstein is now revealing that she’s not happy with the way Bethenny Frankel and Carole Radziwill talked about her during the dinner, where she decided to slip an extra ingredient in the calzone. Bethenny hinted that perhaps the mother of two was dealing with some serious mental issues, something that Jules Wainstein doesn’t appreciate considering she has two children.
“There’s only one thing worse than having your head so far up your a** (or in this case, vagina) that you can’t see how your words and actions affect people around you, and that’s having your head up someone else’s! It’s clear that Bethenny and Carole have their opinions and assumptions about me and that’s fine — everyone is entitled to their opinions — what’s not okay is thinking that your opinions (or someone else’s if you don’t have your own) are the truth.”
Of course, Bethenny tends to be very vocal about her thoughts, sharing that people shouldn’t hang around her if they don’t want to hear the truth. It’s no secret that Jules was acting crazy that day and her food stunt didn’t exactly work out to be the best idea ever. But she does admit that she was going through some issues and she doesn’t need judgment.
“If you’re looking for truth, you should be looking within yourself, not picking apart other people. I am the first to admit that I have flaws and problems, but how and when I choose to deal with them are my business, and if my ‘friends’ have concerns, they know that I am always open to honest, caring advice. I have one moral authority, and He isn’t on a reality show,” Jules Wainstein explains in her blog about The Real Housewives of New York, sharing that she thinks the ladies need to look at themselves a bit before judging her.
“But insinuating that I have mental issues, addiction problems and God knows what else because of a dumb joke is not okay. I have two kids and those kinds of accusations shouldn’t be thrown out at someone lightly; they are hurtful and dangerous,” Jules Wainstein points out, sharing that her children may hear that one day about their mother.
Back in May, Jules Wainstein discovered that her husband had been cheating on her with another woman. Reports reveal that she may have discovered this on her own and busted him while he was with her or perhaps texting her. Within a month, Jules had gathered everything she needed to file for divorce. No word on how custody is going to work for these two, as Wainstein has called Michael out for being a bad caretaker. While filming The Real Housewives of New York, he would often leave the children in their clothes until bedtime, and Jules has revealed that he didn’t change his daughter’s diaper for a while. Since this has come out while they were filming the show, one can imagine she will say something on the reunion special about it.
What do you think of Jules Wainstein’s words to Bethenny and Carole? Do you think she’s right in them being too judgmental?
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