Michelle Duggar just made a new blog post that has people wondering what she means exactly. The famous mom from 19 Kids and Counting went to their Duggar blog to talk about how you need to take care of your husband’s needs. Michelle doesn’t mean ironing his clothes or making him a nice dinner either. Michelle is actually talking about needs that are taken care of in the bedroom, and she wants every new wife to know they are the only one who can take care of these needs for their husbands. Radar Online recently shared what Michelle had to say in this new blog post that she posted this week.
The entire post is on the Duggar Family Blog for fans to read. Michelle Duggar shares her thoughts on what newlyweds should remember when they get married. The post is actually called Michelle Duggar’s Advice for Newlyweds. It is obvious that Michelle thinks a husband deserves special treatment in all ways.
“Anyone can iron Jim Bob’s shirt, anybody can make lunch for him. He can get his lunch somewhere else. But you are the only one who can meet that special need that he has in his life for intimacy. You’re it. You’re the only one. So don’t forget that, that he needs you. So when you are exhausted at the end of the day, maybe from dealing with little ones, and you fall into bed so exhausted at night, don’t forget about him because you and he are the only ones who can have that time together. No one else in the world can meet that need.”
Michelle Duggar goes on to talk about how you should always meet this need for your husband no matter how you feel that day. Even if you are big and pregnant, Michelle Duggar wants you to remember that your husband still has needs and intimate ones.
Michelle did also give some other advice in her new blog post. Duggar talked about how you need to have disagreements privately. Things that are meant for you and your husband only should not be talked about in front of the kids according to Michelle Duggar. This is advice from her to all wives out there. It is obvious the Duggars must have talked about a lot of things behind closed doors and made sure that their 19 children didn’t know everything that was going on at the Duggar household.
Duggar also feels like you should get marriage counseling when needed and that it is okay to get help if you ever do need it. She shared about this in the blog.
“There are going to be those times in your marriage where you might not always agree; you might not see things eye to eye and sometimes you may need a trusted third party to be a counsel for you in your marriage. Feel free to go to that trusted wise counsel that you both respect and get counsel when you need it. We have all been there. Yes, we have a oneness with spirit in Christ, but there are times that we need others to give us life counsel. So be willing to go seek it together.”
Are you shocked that Michelle Duggar revealed her thoughts on how a woman should take care of her husband in the bedroom? Do you feel like maybe Michelle shouldn’t post these opinions for everyone to see? Could she be speaking out to her daughter-in-law? Sound off in the comments section below on your thoughts. Don’t miss the Duggars when they return to TLC for upcoming specials all about Jill Dillard and Jessa Seewald.
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