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Cheating Husband Caught Out By Facebook Photo

Cheating Husband Caught Out By Facebook Photo

“Is this your husband?” has never made so many women nervous.

Two unsuspecting men have been outed for cheating thanks to a Facebook photograph that went viral.

Exposing affairs publicly is becoming a popular humiliation technique for upset spouses; only recently a women outed her cheating husband on a billboard.

However, it’s normally the other half who seeks to expose the cheating so openly, but, in this most recent case, it was an unknown source who decided enough was enough.

A female train passenger posted the picture on Facebook after having endured two hours of the two men talking about cheating on their wives.

The caption of the photograph she posted on the social network was as follows:

“If this is your husband, I have endured a 2 hour train ride from Philadelphia listening to this loser and his friends brag about their multiple affairs and how their wives are too stupid to catch on. Oh please repost …”

Within minutes of the photograph going online, thousands of people begun to the repost and shame the cheating men.

It leaves everyone wondering what punishment is in store for these men if and when their wives find out.

Hopefully, it won’t be as violent as when an estranged husband attacked his wife with a sharp implement just to scare her.

Due to the nature of these pictures, let’s just hope that these men really have been named and shamed for genuine reasons.

Since social media is becoming a common place for public shaming, we have to ask ourselves how many stories we overhear are actually true.

It’s not uncommon for people to make up grand and exciting tales when actually they’re anything but, nor is lying unheard of when people are trying to impress their friends.

Furthermore, is it right to delve into someone else’s private life and ask the whole of Facebook “Is this your husband?” when we don’t know all the facts?

Not many couples would enjoy their dirty laundry being aired to the whole of a social network site.

According to Anna North, Salon writer, these type of shaming posts are becoming more of an issue as they grow in popularity. Addressing this particular story, North had this to say:

“[the post] is just the latest in a long line of public shamings on social media,”

She then went on to say:

“It’s now possible to use social media to enforce behavior in public and semi-public spaces in a way it never was before.”

Although using social media in such a way could alter how we behave, it could also leave us open to similar public shaming episodes.

If these type of posts are indeed becoming a favorite amongst social networks, then how long will it be before we see ourselves caught out for a similar act?

Regardless of your stance on public shaming, the caption “Is this your husband?” is sure to be a popular and memorable quote for a long time.

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58 Responses to “Cheating Husband Caught Out By Facebook Photo”

  1. Lynn Thomas

    WELL, if one chooses to openly discuss this private matter, they have to pay the consequences. Some of these guys just run off on the mouth just to feed their egos. What's sad is that sometimes what is said is fantasy. If you want to make an impression on others by doing this and involving others publicly, so be it. Women do this too , BTW.

  2. Lynn Thomas

    WELL, if one chooses to openly discuss this private matter, they have to pay the consequences. Some of these guys just run off on the mouth just to feed their egos. What's sad is that sometimes what is said is fantasy. If you want to make an impression on others by doing this and involving others publicly, so be it. Women do this too , BTW.

  3. Tonice A. LaPierre

    I totally agree; if you want to get in a public area and discuss your personal business so loud that everyone who does NOT want to hear it, hears it, then you get what you deserve. Especially if you're bragging on doing something morally wrong in the first place.

  4. Russell Grant

    The question though is did these guys actually talk about multiple affairs on the train or did the woman snap the picture and fabricate the story? This wouldn't be the first time something on the Internet isn't actually real and without knowing the other side of the story, it's nothing better than a witch hunt.

  5. Kristie Dixon

    If I were married to either one of the losers, I wouldn't waste another minute or more energy….just take everything and leave.

  6. Melissa Lamphere

    You have to consider the person who posted this 1st of all, did she just snap a pic & post a bogus story? There were supposedly multiple men but the pic shows one. Either way, if she was telling the truth or not, I don't think it was right to make his wife found out this way. Yes, the guy was a moron for publicly showing his ass but still it's not anyone else's business to just post on FB. Who knows what would be the result of his wife knowing & being publicly humiliated by her selfish husband.

  7. Vairy Ann Boutwell

    If you are riding on public transportation what gives you the right to snap a picture of people and publish it? If you don't want to hear a 2 hour conversation then I would suggest a more private way of going from one place to another..

  8. Ulon Munro

    Haha I think it's awesome that these two assholes got outed on social media! If you are bragging openly in public about affairs, how can they expect the public to just listen and not have a reaction. As for the wives, well they may feel humiliated at first but surely they will look back and be happy those bastards were outed.

  9. Tanya Louise Neal

    I would have posted video with audio, if these idiots are stupid enough to brag about it where others can hear it must not be to big a secret. Public transportation = public humiliation.

  10. Tanya Louise Neal

    I would have posted video with audio, if these idiots are stupid enough to brag about it where others can hear it must not be to big a secret. Public transportation = public humiliation.

  11. Ric Decker

    Or how about this scenario. She thinks guy is cute and starts flirting with him. Guy turns her down saying he's married. Girl gets pissed and takes picture and decides to start some shit just to be spiteful. It happened to me, but I wasn't married. I was dating my now wife and another girl became jealous of us and tried starting shit between me and my wife.

  12. Ric Decker

    Or how about this scenario. She thinks guy is cute and starts flirting with him. Guy turns her down saying he's married. Girl gets pissed and takes picture and decides to start some shit just to be spiteful. It happened to me, but I wasn't married. I was dating my now wife and another girl became jealous of us and tried starting shit between me and my wife.

  13. Chris Rose

    You have to be a nit wit to brag about something you never did because you think it makes you look good. Especially cheating on a spouse. Even if you did cheat, you should feel shame, not pride. Idiots.

  14. Brian Ingham

    Sounds to me like the woman is sad, lonely, and pathetic, and since she has nothing better to do or anyone in her life she decides to ruin someone elses life. What business is it of hers to do something like that? Sure the guys are dumbasses and don't deserve their wives, but that doesn't mean the woman who overheard them had any right to do something that fucking pathetic. Poor woman…hopefully she gets a life.

  15. Sherri Smith

    While I agree that he was on public transportation so in a sense he made his affairs public, I don't agree with what the woman did because of what it may/did/could do to the wife. He is a dirt ball, but she (wife) did not deserve to find out this way.

  16. Candace Pink

    I say if they were all stupid enough to go ahead and brag about what they did(which was most likely more fiction then fact) thne why not? They didn't seem to care when they were spouting off at the mouth on who heard them or not…maybe next time they will use more class!

  17. Laurel M Ashley

    I think cheating husbands should be exposed, they could be exposing their unsuspecting wives to damaging and potentially deadly disease. These guys have no one to blame but themselves for negative consequences from this because of their actions and running their mouth off in public about it.

  18. William Scott Eltzroth

    Did this lady have a microphone and tape recorder on her too? Just how do we know know that this woman taking a picture for faecbook isnt a man hateing Lesbian that just wants to cause harm to others relationships? Some how doesnt seem fair does it? God, does this mean that the world will all be forced to record every move we make so we cant be accused of other bad things by vindictive people?

  19. William Scott Eltzroth

    Could it be that the woman that snapped the picture was just jealious because this cheating man didn't hit up and try to score with her during the entire ride? Jealously is an ugly thing!

  20. Dan Collins

    That is, as some have posted, this is even legit. Sometimes what seems to be true, isn't. Case in point, the Shannon Richardson story, accuses husband of sending poisoned letters to President Obama…turns out SHE was the one behind the whole thing.

  21. Dan Collins

    That is, as some have posted, this is even legit. Sometimes what seems to be true, isn't. Case in point, the Shannon Richardson story, accuses husband of sending poisoned letters to President Obama…turns out SHE was the one behind the whole thing.

  22. Christy G. Villarreal

    eh, its a good thing maybe it'll make people think twice about cheating. Besides, if their wives find out, I'm fairly certain they'll smooth talk their way out of it and the women will forgive em and give em another chance. I'm positive of it. Women take so much crap from men its unbelievable ( I know, I was one of em) It takes hitting the bottom of the barrel for a woman to actually up and leave her husband. These women do deserve to know what's goin on though, may not be the most ethical way to go about it but at least they'll (hopefully) know where they stand in their husband's lives. These men won't suffer any consequences, just look at Rhianna, unfortunately a lot of women (not all) but a great majority, will still be foolish enough to stay with a man who does them wrong.

  23. Don Hager

    If it is true – just sayin. I could take a picture of you and make an outrageous statement too – all a lie. Not fair to you at all. People can hurt others – it isn't right on many levels…

  24. April Renee

    If I was the wife I'd pretend not to have seen it and do some investigating on my own or with a p.i. Then I would take everything but the shoes on his feet!!!

  25. Melissa Marion

    Women know a douche bag when they see one! I'm pretty sure she's not a lesbian who's angry or angry because he didn't hit on her. We do have a bullshit meter that can run for miles. I'm sure your comment above is due to your own bitterness of women. Oh and by the way I'm like this all the time I'm not having my period if that was the next statement you were going to use.

  26. Russell Grant

    It doesn't have to be a lesbian and knowing more than a few lesbians, they really don't give a rat's ass about what us guys do. It could easily and more likely be someone who was cheated on herself and has developed her own hate of men.

  27. Missy Livingston

    Would she have to be a man-hating lesbian in order to want to cause drama in another person's relationship?

  28. Cindy Morine

    If they don't cheat they will have nothing to worry about.You want to cheat, then be man enought o pay the consequences…LMAO.

  29. Missy Livingston

    Idk to be honest. For the benefit of the doubt, lets say this is real. People have a right to know what's going on in their relationships but I don't think it's something that should be spread across the interwebs. Someone is already going to be hurt by this, lets add to it the humiliation of knowing that possibly thousands of people have seen this post and know your spouse is cheating on you. Not only are you hurt (and pissed) but now, your co-workers, fellow community members, etc., know your husband/wife has no respect for you. Something that could have been handled in a way where the victim could have kept some amount of dignity is now a public circus. And also, lets not forget that many people are NOT noble when they post this kind of thing. Too many people get off on publicly humiliating other people and it's becoming a problem – especially when it's so easy to make things up or bend the truth. Social media is becoming a weapon and for some reason, it gives people the idea that they can say/do whatever they want with anonymity, regardless of who it hurts. It's taken private gossiping BS and has made it a wide-spread phenomena.
    But basically, in this case, you're not just shaming the cheater, you're also shaming their spouses. At some point, their wives would find out without the help of facebook and some random strangers. Cheaters slip eventually.

  30. Jamie Lechner

    Sounds like you have no idea what you're talking about and are no better than those losers running at the mouth. Women are at so many risks when their men cheat on them and they have no idea!
    Hopefully YOU can get a life and realize what scumbags cheaters are and how many people are possibly hurt by their selfishness.

  31. Lee Kallett

    How about wives who commit adultery? I learned the ex had a same sex affair with a married woman while pregnant with the 2nd and last child 18 years ago. Wish someone had some photos of her deception while they ran around in the community. This is my alimony horror story. In the no fault divorce state of Florida, the ex had many adulterous affairs with other women-including an incestuous one with her 20 year old cousin. She gets rewarded for this and her changed sexual orientation with lifetime alimony by the Hillsborough County Court (Tampa) and I get punished financially. How is this right and just? It certainly isn't and the time to fix such an injustice is now. In fact, her duplicity continues since she uses a made up last name in all daily life and the blogs she writes. The only time her true and legal name is used is on her driver's license and banking the $4000/month alimony welfare checks I have to write out.
    Elvina and Lee Kallett of St. Pete Beach, FL – Pays lifetime alimony to woman unable to remarry.
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l523XAgv_vc

    Lee Kallett of St. Pete Beach, FL – Pays $4K in permanent alimony to lesbian ex-wife.
    http://www.youtube.com
    This is Lee Kallett and Elvina Kallett. He pays permanent alimony to a woman who left the marriage because she chose to live a lesbian.

  32. ChiMeng Chang

    @Dan Collins – if this was NOT legit then we would all feel sorry for the guy. For the woman who posted this on her FB page, she should know we live in such a litigious society – this would be a legitimate lawsuit against her.
    But something tells me this is not falsified since (I believe) she posted this on her own Facebook account (with her real name and identity) and that's where it went viral. A friend of a friend (from Philadelphia) "Liked" it and that how I saw it. With some digging, one can probably find the woman who posted this.
    Meanwhile here is the unpixelated pic of the guy: https://www.sodahead.com/entertainment/lady-posted-this-on-facebook-after-riding-on-train-to-philly/question-3737481/#!demo_looking_for

  33. Jeri Kirby

    I think people should just mind their own darn business. Cheaters will always be caught by their spouses sooner or later anyway. Why embarrass the other spouse publicity.

  34. Anonymous

    You can't just "take everything" when you are married,Kristie."Everything" in a marriage isn't just the wife's.These guys wives are probably a lot like you. Written like a true Gold Digger.Please do all men a favor and turn into a lesbian.

  35. John Zaffino

    As others have already said, many men just like to make stories up to one-up their friends, so I hope that these guys are actually cheating and not just spinning tales. I would hate to think that women were hurt by stories that were made up to impress a friend, and not at all true. These characters are jerks, either way.

  36. Missy Livingston

    not completely extinct, thank you lol. :P But you're right in that it makes it a lot easier for people to connect in the wrong way if they are so inclined.

  37. Michelle Chellybabes Taggart

    It is all well and good being found out, and I feel so sorry for the partners involved, but what if this family had children, who also had social media accounts, can you imagine the damage done to the child, finding out your father was cheating on your mother in the most public way………… after all the fun and games and the excitement of a affair, its mostly always the innocent ones that are hurt the most.

  38. Ericka A. Lynch

    It's funny because this public shaming has been around for a very long time for celebrities so now it's just spreading to us, so if this is so wrong than maybe we should of stopped the shamming of celebrities a long time ago. We are only copying the work of the media!

  39. John Zaffino

    You're right. What is wrong with just changing your seat, if the talk bothers you? I do not like this at all.

  40. Michelle Welker

    If he was man enough to brag in open public then he should be man enough to endure the consequences. There is a lot of "if its true" or "she could of made it up" which is all true but not the question at stake. To be honest, it sounds like a woman that is merely trying to protect a fellow human being. Typically if a woman is just trying to be malicious then the stories always seem exaggerated, she sounds like someone who was just fuming over their lack of care for woman they supposedly "love" I would have done the same. Depending on how far a way she was she probably couldn't get a good audio anyway. So to answer the question, yes cheaters should be exposed.

  41. Deej Smith

    Maybe it will make people think more about what they are doing and ask themselves should they be doing it? People like to brag sometimes and nobody likes to be humiliated but for some it is the only way to get through to them that thier behaviors are unacceptable. Only when people struggle that changes occur. p.o.v.

  42. Elizabeth Clark

    Silly article, this went about last week and everyone say his face. LOL

  43. Elizabeth Clark

    P.s. Too late to hide his face knuckleheads…LOL

  44. Vini Grog

    Or maybe, some needy female was looking to get attention from guys on the train ride, didn't get any for obvious reasons, perhaps she got some sort of insulting comment in her address… here comes a revenge story.

  45. Erika Espinoza

    What is the point in doing this? The majority of the women know when a guy is cheating, but yet they refuse to accept it and look the other way. Or sometimes they even forgive them and believe the bullshit the men feed them. To me it's just a waste of time, why? Because women are smart creatures and we know when something is going on, we feel it, it's like our 6th sense.

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  48. Corey Blauvelt

    Uhh I don't know about how you are. But I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years and once an ex wanted to get back together with me and I told her no. She then messaged my girlfriend and told her that I had slept with her when I hadn't. It took me about a month to convince her that I hadn't slept with her. So it's not just as easy as not worrying about it because some women have trust issues and most certainly, everyone in a situation like that would say "I didn't do it" so even if it's true that he didn't it's not likely that she would believe him.