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Mom Ignores Dead Baby For Full Day While Chatting on Web, Says Raising Kids is Too Much Hassle

Posted: June 30, 2012

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A Japanese mom left her baby unattended to die in a crib, not noticing his eventual death for at least full day due to her web-chatting habit, local media reports.

The Japanese mother, 29-year-old Yumiko Takahashi, had already lost two children to an accident and to an illness, said she last saw 19-month-old son Neo alive some time on June 24th of last year. Neo had been running a fever, and Takahashi put the boy down in his crib. Eventually, postmortem examinations revealed that Neo passed away from unreported causes at around 2PM the same day.

But Neo’s death went unnoticed by Takahashi until, unbelievably, June 26th — and police say the delay, during which time the baby was presumably not changed, offered food or drink, was at least 24 hours, perhaps more. On the 26th, the young mother discovered the baby dead in his crib. (A far less violent scenario than the American mom who shook her child to death for interrupting her FarmVille game.)

According to authorities, Takahashi’s first child perished within the first few days of his life due to an illness. Her second child, also a boy, plummeted to his death from an apartment balcony to his death. After the death of Neo, Takahashi was arrested by local police in Otsu, western Japan. She was charged with suspicion of child neglect and causing death.

Between June 24th and June 26th, Takahashi told police she spent time using internet forums and chatting as her baby lay dead in his crib. Reportedly, she told police:

“I have sought solace in chatting on the Internet to get connected to other people for three years since I got depressed for losing my son in an accident… Child raising is too much hassle.”

Police say that the year-long lag between Neo’s death and Takahashi’s arrest was due to the subsequent investigation.



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72 Archived Responses to “ Mom Ignores Dead Baby For Full Day While Chatting on Web, Says Raising Kids is Too Much Hassle ”

  1. Megan Layer
    Jun 30, 2012

    Yes, she should be charged with murder. She neglected and ignored her baby. People like this should not be able to bare children.

  2. Megan Layer
    Jun 30, 2012

    Yes, she should be charged with murder. She neglected and ignored her baby. People like this should not be able to bare children.

  3. I do hope that they make sure she has no more children nor any live animals. May all those children she did have rest in peace.

  4. THAT IS MURDER! If you can't handle raising children then you should not have them. Babies take a lot of work and attention.

  5. If child raising is too much of a hassle, DON'T OPEN YOUR LEGS! B*tch

  6. it was stupid of her to start having kids if she is going to say that it is a hassle for her to keep them she should be arrested and she should get a bad punishment for it.

  7. Pure Evil

  8. Danielle Helton
    Jun 30, 2012

    YEH DEF MURDER.

  9. … and the father(s)?

  10. Ahhh PLEASE tell me that is a rhetorical question. YES, LIFE SENTENCE.

  11. Murder, yes. Premeditated, yes….What else did she think would happen if she left her alone all that time and was sick to begin with. She had to eat and relieve herself, what did she think the baby could do on its own. She willingly let that child die. If she doesn't get the death penalty, then life in prison in solitaire. Especially no computers or games. We cannot starve her or neglect her like she did her baby, that would be murder. But I sure would see to it she suffered for it. God bless those children, may they rest in peace. If she somehow gets off free, then medically make sure she cannot have any children and an order to never work with children. I cannot believe, yet know it is true, how parents can do this to their own flesh and blood. :- (

  12. its cases like this I truly wish they'd look away from "cruel and unusual punishment" and spade her like animal she is.

  13. its cases like this I truly wish they'd look away from "cruel and unusual punishment" and spade her like animal she is.

  14. its cases like this I truly wish they'd look away from "cruel and unusual punishment" and spade her like animal she is.

  15. OMG! The things I would do to this woman! After having my first child I was unable to have any more, and would have done anything to have another one, and to hear of this tragity it saddens me! I just can't comprehend why a person would do this! Hopefully she will never be able to reproduce ever!

  16. OMG! The things I would do to this woman! After having my first child I was unable to have any more, and would have done anything to have another one, and to hear of this tragity it saddens me! I just can't comprehend why a person would do this! Hopefully she will never be able to reproduce ever!

  17. OMG! The things I would do to this woman! After having my first child I was unable to have any more, and would have done anything to have another one, and to hear of this tragity it saddens me! I just can't comprehend why a person would do this! Hopefully she will never be able to reproduce ever!

  18. i wish they would say more about them…but the father could be out of the picture or could have been away working….if not and he spent any time at home during those days, i say throw him in jail too.

  19. this is bullshit woman need a brutal beating

  20. yes, that kind of neglect is most definitely murder. almost 2 days without noticing your INFANT child is dead in his crib? so even if he hadn't died you denied him food, drink, a clean diaper and human contact. This woman may have severe mental issues and depression possibly caused by the death of her first child, but it doesn't excuse her behavior. disgusting. poor babies. all three of them.

  21. Cheri Delong
    Jun 30, 2012

    I have a 5 month old great grandson and if he sleeps for an hour during the day, I am in there checking on him. There is no excuse for this!!!

  22. Cheryl Madison
    Jun 30, 2012

    Really? I don't believe this story. If its true, that is so messed up.

  23. that's messed up, may those kids rest in peace, and may that evil woman live in pain for the rest of her life. That's what I don't understand, can anyone say pill to this woman? or better yet, keep your effin legs closed!

  24. exactly Pam, where was the father? How does she keep getting pregnant? And how do you not check your child for feeding and changing???? And if the father was around, didn't he check the child? She's sick in the head and should at least be made sterile.

  25. Being charged with murder is not enough. She should be left to die in the same manner as her child was. Being a parent should be the formost responsibility in a persons life, if it is too much of a hassle to be a mother then don't have them, or give them to someone who will cherish and respect their life and see them as they reallly are, a blessing!

  26. This woman has some definiten serious maternal issues. May these sweet innocent children RIP. She should be charged for neglect, endangerment and murder of a child. Where is the father(s) in all this crisis?

  27. WTH! If you are that addicted to something..being drugs..alcohol..internet..and it causes the death..especially a small child..should absolutely considered murder! Hope she gets what she deserves! I have 2 children and raised my twin brother and sister until they were 16..now am raising my 2 grandchildren..just can't comprehend it! I say throw the book and then through another one! The poor babies are in God's hands and they will be protected from idiots like her!

  28. Tommy Foley
    Jun 30, 2012

    Im sorryJanet but this kind of stuff happens more than you think sad sad

  29. Tommy Foley
    Jun 30, 2012

    NEWS OF THIS STUFF JUST WANTS ME TO GO SLAP THE SHIT OUT OF SOMEONE ,YA KNOW ,CHILD ABUSE

  30. I Agree i have a 3 month old.i check him every few minutes when he sleeps,and make sure he's changed on time and fed,that is too sad,she shouldn't have babies,if internet was more important than her kids…my kids are my life,everything else can wait.kids come first.

  31. Tommy Foley
    Jun 30, 2012

    tHEN FIND A FAMILY MEMBER THAT DOESN,T WANT TO HERE HOW HARD IT IS ,BECAUSE IT IS NOT HARD ,PUT YOUR CHILD BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE.I GLAD I WAS NEVER A DEAD BEAT DAD

  32. Tommy Foley
    Jun 30, 2012

    tHIS STUFF MAKES MY BLOOD PRESSURE GO UP ,I,M GONNA GET OUT SOME WOOOP ASS

  33. Mercedes Perez
    Jun 30, 2012

    why even give birth if your gna be a horrible mom?

  34. Jesus Christ! Seems like she killed two of her kids, not one. Child raising is a hassle? I have none so I won't argue with that, but is taking preventative measures like the pill a hassle too? Tell me where's the logic……..

  35. Cassandra Patalano
    Jul 1, 2012

    My kids are 12 & 11 and I still check on them at night. That poor baby, luckily he's in heaven now, giggling with all the other angels. I hope them give this person the death penalty. And her second child accidentaly "fell"out of a window?? I truly don't believe that…at all, she murdered that child as well. I shudder to think about other kids in that country if this is how long these murderess take to be investigated.

  36. Deborah Sunshine
    Jul 1, 2012

    I hope she dies in prison.
    farmville
    wtf planet r we on?

  37. Dimi Stevenson
    Jul 1, 2012

    They sure don't make moms like they used to.

  38. This is why the world is going to heck and back….. R.I.P lil angles.

  39. You have a wonderful dad!

  40. Please sterilize her!

  41. Sorry but there is no excuse for something like that. Sometimes i wish the same would happen to them. Makes me sick. I've been reading so much crap online lately about children and babies dying because their so called parents don't care for them or purposely hurt them like they're not even human. It blows my mind how someone could possibly do those things

  42. that is disgusting.

  43. I know it makes me cringe. every single day I think I see headlines about things like this happening and most of the time I won't even read the article b/c I know it's just gonna be terrible.

  44. Wth………………

  45. There was a couple who let their baby die because they were too busy taking care of their virtual baby.

  46. Hell yeah, any "parent" who severely neglects her child like this should be charged with murder! Some people should not be allowed to own a pet, much less have a child.

  47. OMG I Seriously Hope She Doesn't Have Any More Kids.Hope She Dies And Rots In Hell.

  48. ANYBODY WHO HARMS OR NEGLECTS A CHILD THAT RESULTS IN THAT CHILD OR CHILDREN'S DEATH SHOULD BE CHARGED WITH CAPITAL MURDER AND SENTENCED TO DEATH , DO NOT PASS GO.

  49. Esty Schamp i have a 5 month and when he sleps for more than 2 hours i allways check and move him

  50. Vanessa Kraemer I AGREE WITH YOU, LET ME BE JUDGE, JURY, AND EXECUTIONER PLEASE

  51. Why bother having the baby? Ever heard of adoption? She should be banned from web for life in prison.

  52. Why bother having the baby? Ever heard of adoption? She should be banned from web for life in prison.

  53. Gwen Gray
    Jul 4, 2012

    I do not normally advocate anyone be sterilized but I think this person has no right to be a parent or caretaker for any living creature or being.

  54. Anonymous
    Jul 4, 2012

    Another Casey Anthony huh?

  55. They should steralize this bitch!!!

  56. I feel sorry for her child. She should have been taking care of the one that she HAD alive not chatting it up in a chat room. Sorry no excuses. The mental health thing? I'm bipolar I with borderline personality disorder ptsd and panic and anxiety disorder also here's the kicker- My doctor has me on ZERO medication for it because I'm breast feeding it's not an excuse for poor parenting sorry it's not. You have a sick baby you TEND to that baby. Even not sick you should check on their well being. The other one probably fell off the balcony as she was playing on the computer. My little girl is sick right now she's 9 months old and she hasn't been out of my sight all day. They can't care for themselves….don't want the responsibility? Keep your legs closed or give them to someone who will give them the love and attention they deserve!

  57. Maybe they should put her in a cell and totally ignore her while they continue on with their day. This is murder and child abuse. Oh yes, and make her wear a soiled diaper!

  58. Denise DeRosa
    Jul 6, 2012

    This absolutely sickens me to death! When I first saw the headline, I thought to myself, this must be a "teen mom" – 29? 29 years old and you can't take care of a child? You think they are a hassle? THEN WHY DID YOU KEEP HAVING THEM AND WHO IN HELL DID YOU HAVE THEM WITH? This is appalling especially that they say it is suspicious! IT IS NOT SUSPICIOUS! IT WAS MURDER – ALL 3 OF THEM! Lock her up, burn her and throw away the key! I hope those precious children are resting in peace in heaven! God help us all. This world is getting sicker and sicker.

  59. In America, as it stands now, they would just call this Late Term Abortion. But the woman should get the death sentence. Oh, sorry you abortionist do not usually belieive in that. That makes us no better than they are, right? The man or woman that cold blooded killed someone is much better than that baby you sentenced to die. My fault.

  60. I totally agree with Megan Layer, or just sterilize her or shoot her!

  61. Meech Lynn
    Aug 31, 2012

    "Child raising is too much hassle.”.

    Whoever continued allowing this woman to care for a child after the deaths of the first two are partly to blame for this tragedy. This woman is clearly unfit.

  62. OMG where was child services? They knew she was pregnant, why were they not vigilant and ready to scoop the child when it was born:(

  63. Yeah depression is bad thing to suffers from but you putt baby down in crib you check on him or her also if this women never hello what about change food drink yeah kids are had work I got five 8.7.5.3.2 and it hard but we get on with it